[TheForge] Denial won't work -- call 911 if you have symptoms...

Dave Mudge davemudge1 at gmail.com
Mon Oct 15 00:04:37 EDT 2018


Bruce, thanks for sharing your experience.
Hopefully we will remember to take care of ourselves
and not hesitate to call for help if we have trouble.
Hope that your girlfriend has a full recovery.
dave m
listmom for TheForge

On Sun, Oct 14, 2018 at 9:56 PM Kim George <klgeorge at kent.edu> wrote:

> Sorry to hear that,but best wishes for a speedy recovery with minimal down
> side.
>
> On 10/14/18, Bruce . <freemab222 at gmail.com> wrote:
> > ...of stroke, heart attack, deep vein thrombosis, pulmonary embolism,
> etc.
> >
> > I won't recount those symptoms.  There are better sources on the web than
> > me.  E.g.:
> >
> > https://www.webmd.com/stroke/guide/signs-of-stroke
> >
> >
> https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/heart-attack/in-depth/heart-attack-symptoms/art-20047744
> >
> >
> https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/deep-vein-thrombosis/symptoms-causes/syc-20352557
> > *****
> > If you're not sure you agree, read on.
> > *****
> >
> > My story:  Thursday, my girlfriend (whom I'd seen the previous Sunday)
> > called me to say there was something wrong with her.  I raced over and
> saw
> > the problem -- slightly slurred speech and a weak left hand.  I had her
> > chew an aspirin tablet, and I called 911.  After examining her, the EMTs
> > took her to the hospital.  She'd had a stroke.
> >
> > The problem was, the stroke occurred WEDNESDAY, and she'd waited 24 hours
> > to call me.  She hadn't even taken aspirin because she couldn't find any.
> > She said she thought the symptoms would pass.
> >
> > Such symptoms NEVER just pass.  They get worse.  And 3 hours after the
> > stroke, the door closes on some of the more effective treatments.
> >
> > She has since had blood taken a few times, two CT's, an echocardigram (?)
> > or two, an MRI, and is due for another test on Monday that will require
> her
> > to be anesthetized.
> >
> > She's doing as well as can be expected.  Her mind is fine and her speech
> > only slightly slurred, but her left hand doesn't work well, though she's
> > working it as best she can.  I helped her shower and wash her hair today,
> > which she can't yet do alone (for risk of falling).
> >
> > And by the time I'd finished today's 5-hour (or so) visit I was very
> tired
> > (as was she) -- but I still had to go back to her house (second time
> today)
> > to feed and tend to the cat.
> >
> > She wants to go home, but she lives alone so that's not likely to happen
> > soon.  She'll be at least another day in the hospital, followed likely by
> > some sort of nursing home with PT, etc.  I'm not even thinking yet about
> > what this all will cost.
> >
> > Sorry for the tale of woe, but NEVER NEVER ignore symptoms of stroke,
> heart
> > attack, or deep vein thrombosis.  Chew an aspirin and call 911 right
> away.
> >
> > Thanks for any and all good wishes.  I'm agnostic but even I accept well
> > meaning "thoughts and prayers".  Anyway, she's at least nominally
> religious
> > -- Methodist, I think  -- so I'll pass along any good wishes.
> >
> > Bruce
> > NJ
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