Congratulations Jon on the partial success. Yes a single looper really does not have a lot of gain !
You need to consider also that you take a 3 dB hit because the EME stations are using circular polarity.
A 4 ft dish with CP feed would certainly be much better.
Its nice to see that you have modified your rig for 3400 vs 3456. I have done that but no one to QSO locally
Best 73
Barry VE4MA/ K7